1758) For some of us, when we read the word, despair, something in our gut drops. We only have to read the word and our bodies immediately tighten and something in our spirit cries.

When you’re in despair, you feel completely out of control and that, at any moment, you might lose it, physically, mentally, emotionally and/or spiritually.

Then, there is perhaps the worst thing you experience in despair and that is feeling alone. Yes, you might have family right there with you. You might have a spouse and friends, but you can still feel alone.

In Psalm 77, we read of Asaph pouring out words of despair. He groans and cries. He finds no comfort. He feels rejected and ignored. What makes this heavier is that Asaph believes God is not comforting, accepting, and/or listening.

Thank God the Psalm doesn’t end there. After the first 9 verses, Asaph’s focus changes. Beginning in verse 10, he acknowledges God’s work in his life. He reminds himself of God’s holiness and miracles he has seen. He writes of God’s power.

When I read this, I wonder what happened between verses 9 and 10. Did Asaph write the psalm completely at one time? As a writer, I often begin something and finish it up hours or even days later.

The second thing that comes to mind is what happens with our brains when we are in crisis. When pain of any kind hits us, the thinking part of our brain closes down and our body is on high alert. (You know, the fight-or-flight mode). It is impossible to think clearly.

Could this be what Asaph experienced? I’d say there’s a good chance.

If you or someone you love is in the dark waters of despair, remind yourself or them to hang on in the moment because clarity will eventually arise.