1753) As a teacher, I yearn to have a classroom environment that encourages my young scholars to do the things I ask.
What works? It depends on whether you’re asking in the short-term or in the long. Why? Because fear of getting in trouble might motivate the kids to do what I ask but when the fear disappears, there’s no reason for them to comply.
So, what is the best motivator? If we look to Jesus for this answer, we find it in John 14:15. Here, he says the most powerful motivator is love. Not fear. Not guilt. Not bribery. Not anger. Just love.
So, how do I create an environment around me that is saturated with love? You can find the answer in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
There is love dripping from someone who is patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, and not full of selfish pride.
Love draws others because it does not dishonor them, instead, seeks their best interest, and remains calm in difficult situations.
Love thrives in someone who does not keep lists of the wrongs others have done, and it’s found within those who hate evil and promote the truth.
The one who loves attracts others because there is protection, trust, and hope in them.
We can love others in this way only because we have experienced it ourselves and it naturally regenerates within us.
If you haven’t experienced this kind of love, it’s near impossible to give it to others.
Choose to spend time with Jesus, so you can experience his love and therefore, motivate others.